Why does a man lose interest in you over time.
Loss of INTEREST on the part of a man is a common and rather serious problem that negatively affects relations if the cause of this loss of interest is not eliminated in time. What if you find yourself in this situation?
Why does a man lose interest in you over time?
Losing a man’s interest is probably one of the most common problems women turn to me with. This is indeed a fairly common and serious problem that can significantly worsen your relationship if you do not understand and eliminate the cause of this loss of interest in time. That is why I decided to write an article on this topic to share my experience and help you cope with this situation if it suddenly happened in your relationship too.
Where the man’s interest disappears
So what’s the deal? Why does a man begin to move away from you over time and no longer show such an interest, as it was before?
And then you, of course, begin to panic and “catch up” with him, because of which he, of course, moves away from you even more and so on in a circle. But in fact, this phenomenon has one fairly significant reason, and this reason lies in the change in your behavior with a man.
The fact is that most women in the process of relations with a man begin to lose their lightness and naturalness in behavior and attitude towards him. They either become indifferent to themselves and to him, or vice versa fall into the other extreme and become too malleable and helpful. As you know, a bias in either of these two sides negatively affects both your man’s attitude towards you and your relationship as a whole.
Now remember how you behaved at the beginning of your relationship with a man, when you were just starting to date. Remember how playful, funny, easy-going you were then, and what is important, you behaved a little detached from your man, and you certainly didn’t try to please him by any means. But then he was the other way around – he did his best to get such a spectacular and independent woman like you. What happened to you now? Where is that light and elusive woman that you were before ..?
After all, then you did not demand from your man constant evidence of his love and serious intentions regarding you. Neither pressed him with the adoption of any final decisions. Then everything happened somehow naturally and as if by itself.
And most importantly, it was then that the man always wanted to do something for you. After all, your lightness and self-confidence bribed and bewitched. And that is why the man wanted to conquer and seek you.
Now what? All this somewhere disappeared from your behavior, but he was replaced by constant tension, self-doubt, which is manifested in the eternal declarations of love to your man with a silent question-reproach in your eyes: “But you still love me too, really so? “So directly and I want to answer:” Yes, truth, truth, just leave me alone. ” Therefore, I won’t be surprised if your man answers that way sometimes. Yes, all this really repels and causes more pity for you than sincere interest.
Therefore, you urgently need to save the situation and change your tactics of behavior, because this will primarily positively affect you, and only then, accordingly, your man. To get started, just try to loosen your “grip” a little and stop constantly pushing and demanding something from your man. Just relax …
Behave more relaxed, as then at the beginning of your relationship. Try to find out from your man what exactly he most liked then. After all, it is quite possible that this was just the very playfulness and ease that you now lack so much.
Therefore, when you find out about this, try to return it to your behavior again, because you yourself also liked it more than you did it with such “jerking” and nervous, as it is now, isn’t it? Just do it naturally, not pretended, as if you had a lot of fun, but everyone still understands that this is far from the case. No need to pretend – you just need to really feel happy and free again.
Learn to flirt again with your man, to be easy, alluring and emotionally independent from him. After all, a constantly serious, tense and always demanding and somewhat dissatisfied woman is really not very attractive and interesting.
Therefore, just add a little “pepper” to your relationship, remember your sense of humor, even sarcasm, because a woman with a sharp tongue is incredibly attractive and really turns on and causes genuine interest in men. And then you will see how quickly your man’s interest in you will be restored and, perhaps, even stronger than before. I believe that you will succeed. Good luck to you!
