The love of a lifetime usually comes after the mistake of a lifetime. Then when you are ready! But what if it is the best that could happen to you? Perhaps you would never give up toxic relationships if you were not forced out of them.
Sometimes we become so stubborn, so persistent in holding on to what we consider to be love, that in the end it only hurts us.
Maybe there was no other way. It was the push you needed to move away from something that was not meant for you. Perhaps you needed to break down so that your puzzles could be joined – only in a different way.
You might need to first find yourself, so that you find the right person for you. And your failure is an opportunity to learn something; so that you can know what love should not be.
Love is always two. Love should not ask. Anyone who wants to be in your life will find both time and opportunity to be near.
Love should not be cold. You should be warm, regardless of the time of year. You should never yearn for hugs and kisses.
Love should not be deaf to your problems. You should always have someone who will be near you, who will at least listen, even if they cannot help. You should not feel alone in a relationship.
Love should not be torture. She should not make you cry more often than smile. Love cannot live in violence. You will feel that you belong to another person, but at the same time you are free. Free to be yourself.
Be thankful for the mistake of your life. She prepared you for what remains to be. She prepared you for real life. She prepared you for the love of your life.
Your mistake will teach you to recognize your man when he comes. And you will recognize him – there is no doubt about it. You will feel the kindred inner world that you have been looking for so long, because, finally, you will be with someone who cares about you just like you do about him.
The understanding and chemistry that will arise between you will be magnetic.
It will draw you closer and closer to each other. It will be easy to make plans and spend time together because he wants to see you the same way you do.
You will be reciprocated, and you will feel it. At the same time, this love will appease you.
She will make you feel safe. You will feel that you have finally found your home, and you will not have any doubts about it. For the first time in your life, you will be sure.
All this will be due to the error of your life. Because of your mistake, you took pieces of your heart and reassembled them in your own unique style that will attract the love of your whole life to you.
